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Becoming a Grandparent

Whether you are becoming a first time grandparent with all the excitement and joy, or have settled into the role of grandmother or grandfather and are trying to navigate the travails and the opportunities you have as a grandparent to impact the lives of your grandchildren, our grandparenting section of the Starts at 60 Retirement Guide is packed with information.

We’ve got real-life stories from grandparents struggling with a wide range of issues, things to do with your grandchildren when they come to visit, and important information for grandparent carers too.

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The latest news, views, explainers and community stories about becoming a grandparent and grandparenting today

‘Am I in the wrong?’: Grandmother told to scale down displays of affection towards grandchild
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 Do you think kids of today spend too much time on electronic devices? Source: Getty Images.
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Grandma triggers lively debate after concern for grandkids’ phone obsession

Grandma triggers lively debate after concern for grandkids’ phone obsession

A worried grandmother has triggered fierce debate after revealing her grandchildren are "glued" to their electronic devices.
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‘Infantese’: Learning the language of baby talk

‘Infantese’: Learning the language of baby talk

This grandfather is learning this his grandkid’s babbling is more than just sounds, here he shares his experience decoding what he calls 'infantese'
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Caring for my grandson keeps me young at heart

Caring for my grandson keeps me young at heart

According to this blogger, caring for his grandchild is extremely rewarding, bringing happiness to his old heart and making him feel young again.
The pandemic has given older people a chance to reevaluate the way they want to spend their senior years, with some making the decision that running a daycare service is not on the list.
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Guilt-ridden grandparents close down ‘tiring’ free childcare

Guilt-ridden grandparents close down ‘tiring’ free childcare

A recent survey has found that a fifth of grandparents find daycare duties too tiring to continue.
The current social distancing measures are taking a particular toll on one grandmother from the UK. Source: Pexels.
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Grandmother shares heartbreak at not being able to hold grandson

Grandmother shares heartbreak at not being able to hold grandson

"I just want to cry."
More grandparents are choosing to take their grandkids on holidays. Source: Getty
Driving & Caravanning

Pack your bags! Gramping is the new travel trend you should embrace

Pack your bags! Gramping is the new travel trend you should embrace

Holidays are one of the top 10 activities enjoyed with grandkids.
A new study has revealed many grandparents feel they don't get enough credit for the help they provide. Source: Getty
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‘We don’t get enough credit’: Grandparents feel undervalued and unappreciated

‘We don’t get enough credit’: Grandparents feel undervalued and unappreciated

Time with grandkids is valuable, but for some grandparents it’s having a negative impact on their finances and they need help.
The judge ruled that the matter fell within the scope of the EU's General Data Protection Regulation. Source: Getty (stock image)
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Court orders grandmother to delete Facebook photos of grandchildren

Court orders grandmother to delete Facebook photos of grandchildren

The children's parents complained that she posted the photos on social media without asking their permission.
Some social distancing restrictions have been relaxed in certain states and territories in time for Mother's Day. Source: Getty.
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Is it safe to have your adult children over this Mother’s Day?

Is it safe to have your adult children over this Mother’s Day?

Mother's Day celebrations may be a little different this year.
Prue Leith has four grandchildren but says she's a terrible gran. Source: Getty.
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‘I don’t think I’ve ever remembered a birthday’: Prue Leith admits she’s a ‘bad granny’

‘I don’t think I’ve ever remembered a birthday’: Prue Leith admits she’s a ‘bad granny’

"As for doing all those things grannies are meant to do like go to football matches [and] concerts — forget it!"
Denise Fergus - the mother of James Bulger (left) - and husband Stuart are set to become grandparents for the first time. Source: Getty.
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‘Couldn’t be happier’: James Bulger’s mum to become grandmother for first time

‘Couldn’t be happier’: James Bulger’s mum to become grandmother for first time

Denise Fergus announced the happy news on social media as she revealed that son Mikey, 26, is expecting his first child.
It's a challenging time for those that are used to seeing their grandchildren regularly. Source: Getty.
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Grandparenting during the pandemic: Is it safe to babysit?

Grandparenting during the pandemic: Is it safe to babysit?

Here's what you need to know to keep you and your family safe.
Stay connected with grandkids via technology during the coronavirus outbreak. Source: Getty
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Expert: It’s important for grandparents to stay connected during isolation

Expert: It’s important for grandparents to stay connected during isolation

It's important for grandparents to stay connected to avoid feelings of loneliness.
Grandparents are using technology to stay connected to their grandkids. Source: Getty
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How technology can help you stay connected as a long-distance grandparent

How technology can help you stay connected as a long-distance grandparent

Don’t let distance get in the way of a strong relationship.

Grandparenting Essentials

The dos and don’ts for first time grandparents
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The dos and don’ts for first time grandparents

There's nothing like becoming a grandparent for the first time.
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Grandparent carers: What payments are available?
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Grandparent carers: What payments are available?

Grandparents who look after their grandkids on a full-time basis can receive financial support from the government.
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How to talk to your grandchildren about death
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How to talk to your grandchildren about death

When discussing death with grandchildren, there's a fine line between answering their questions effectively and causing further confusion or fear.
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Grandma seeks advice as she grapples with her grandson’s return to the family home
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"I hate feeling like this. She throws money with expensive gifts and holidays etc. I feel like I get crumbs. I dare not say anything to anyone but to be honest she's hard work." Source: Getty Images.
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Grandma left feeling overshadowed by the competitive nature of the ‘other Nana’

Grandma left feeling overshadowed by the competitive nature of the ‘other Nana’

A grandma's admission about feeling overshadowed by the competitive antics of the "other Nana" has sparked a wider conversation on the challenges of modern grandparenting.
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Gran sparks debate after ‘making excuses’ to stop grandkids sleeping over

Gran sparks debate after ‘making excuses’ to stop grandkids sleeping over

A gran has triggered debate after revealing that she's been forced to make excuses to prevent her grandkids sleeping over at her home.
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Grandparents share the joy of holding their grandkids for the first time

Grandparents share the joy of holding their grandkids for the first time

The moment grandparents cradle their grandchild in their arms for the first time is often a surreal and profoundly emotional experience.
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Bloggers

How Christmas changes for us over the years

How Christmas changes for us over the years

Even though the festivities remain largely the same, there are many phases that come with Christmas Day.
Some of these ideas are a great way to create new memories that you and the grandkids can look back on in years to come. Source: RgStudio from Getty Images Signature.
Arts & Crafts

5 easy DIY crafts to enjoy with your grandkids this Christmas

5 easy DIY crafts to enjoy with your grandkids this Christmas

Toss the phone and store the iPad — these 5 delightfully simple DIY craft projects are sure to delight you and the grandkids this holiday season.
A grandma has shared that she feels like she no longer has her own life, with her daughter and granddaughter visiting her home every day. Source: Getty Images.
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How much is too much? Gran left feeling overwhelmed by granddaughter’s daily visits

How much is too much? Gran left feeling overwhelmed by granddaughter’s daily visits

For many grandparents, the only downside of having grandchildren is not being able to see them as often as they’d like. However, one woman feels differently, admitting that she actually sees her young granddaughter too much.
When a well-intentioned grandfather steps in for babysitting duties, the outcome is hilariously unforgettable. Source: Getty Images.
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Grandfather’s hilarious babysitting blunders leave the internet in stitches

Grandfather’s hilarious babysitting blunders leave the internet in stitches

Despite his best intentions, a grandfather's attempts at babysitting his grandson have gone viral after a series of humorous misadventures.
Did this grandmother cross the line by cutting her grandson's hair without his mother's permission? Source: Getty Images.
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Grandma sparks outrage after snipping grandson’s hair against mum’s wishes

Grandma sparks outrage after snipping grandson’s hair against mum’s wishes

A grandmother’s well-meaning gesture turns into a family feud after she cuts her grandson’s hair without his mother’s consent.
What are your thoughts on this matter? Do you agree with the grandma? Source: Getty Images.
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Grandma’s heartbreak: Family feud erupts over what to call step-grandpa

Grandma’s heartbreak: Family feud erupts over what to call step-grandpa

A frustrated grandmother has turned to the online community to share her concerns after her daughter insisted that her stepfather be called 'uncle' rather than 'grandpa' by the new granddaughter.
Have you ever found yourself in a similar situation? How would you handle such a dilemma?Source: Getty Images.
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Grandma struggles with feeling upstaged by the competitive ‘other Nana’

Grandma struggles with feeling upstaged by the competitive ‘other Nana’

A grandma's candid admission about feeling upstaged by the competitive nature of the "other Nana" has sparked a wider conversation on the challenges of modern grandparenting.
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Gran sparks debate after ‘making excuses’ to prevent grandkids sleeping over

Gran sparks debate after ‘making excuses’ to prevent grandkids sleeping over

A gran has triggered debate after admitting she's been forced to make excuses to stop her grandkids sleeping over at her home.
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Navigating discipline differences with adult children

Navigating discipline differences with adult children

Discover when and how to intervene, from minor issues to serious concerns.
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Effortless ways to remove crayon stains left by the grandkids

Effortless ways to remove crayon stains left by the grandkids

From toothpaste to WD-40, these household items will save the day.
Are you happy to look after your grandkids or has it started to impact your independence? Source: Getty Images.
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Woman suggests adult children are holding grandparents ‘hostage’ over babysitting duties

Woman suggests adult children are holding grandparents ‘hostage’ over babysitting duties

One woman has questioned whether grandparents are being relied upon too heavily by adult children, asking whether they feel any resentment at being effectively "held hostage" by their children's demands or expectations.
Support quickly flooded in from fellow sympathetic grandparents, offering valuable advice to navigate this tricky family situation. Source: Getty Images.
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Heartbroken grandma seeks support as grandkids favour ‘other grandparents’

Heartbroken grandma seeks support as grandkids favour ‘other grandparents’

In a desperate plea for guidance, a grandmother has turned to the online community seeking advice on how to cope with the heartbreaking situation of feeling left out by her grandkids.
What do you think? Is there a fine line to tread or should you dote on your grandchildren as much as you can? Source: Getty Images.
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Grandmother’s heartache after son asks her to tone down affection toward granddaughter

Grandmother’s heartache after son asks her to tone down affection toward granddaughter

Should grandparents dote on their grandchildren? That's the question one worried gran has asked after her son suggested she was "too intense" when it comes to caring for her only granddaughter.
Should grandparents be free to choose how they spend their golden years, or are they being stretched too thin by their children's demands? Source: Getty Images.
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Grandparent guilt: Are retirees being ‘held hostage’ by childcare expectations?

Grandparent guilt: Are retirees being ‘held hostage’ by childcare expectations?

A heartfelt discussion on Gransnet explores the fine balance between embracing grandkids and protecting your well-earned freedom in retirement.
What do you think? Is she within her rights to refuse? Source: Getty Images.
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Gran triggers debate after ‘making excuses’ to prevent grandkids sleeping over

Gran triggers debate after ‘making excuses’ to prevent grandkids sleeping over

A gran has sparked debate after admitting she's been forced to make excuses to stop her grandkids sleeping over at her home.
The grandma received widespread praise for her commitment to bonding with her grandchildren. Source: Getty Images.
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‘Super Granny’ melts hearts after going the extra mile to bond with her grandkids

‘Super Granny’ melts hearts after going the extra mile to bond with her grandkids

A grandma dubbed "Super Granny" has become an internet sensation after she was filmed going above and beyond for her grandkids.
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