Ageing is a natural part of life, but like anything it comes with its own set of challenges. One of the most difficult struggles faced in later life is the grief that accompanies the loss of partners, loved ones, and friends after almost a lifetime spent together.
This journey through grief is not only emotionally taxing but can also be physically and mentally demanding.
Among all age groups, older individuals bear the weight of bereavement most heavily. According to a 2022 national survey of 633 bereaved adults aged 65 years and above in Australia, a staggering 21 per cent met the criteria for experiencing prolonged grief.
Those surveyed exhibited a notably diminished quality of life, and their sense of loneliness soared when compared to their peers in the broader elderly population.
While the path of grief is tough, building resilience can light the way to a brighter tomorrow.
With that in mind, Start at 60 explores the challenges that may arise when coping with loss later in life, the strategies you can employ to overcome grief, and how resilience can play a pivotal role in moving forward toward a brighter future.
Grief doesn’t discriminate by age and it touches all of us at some point in our lives. However, when we reach the milestone age of 60 and beyond, the emotional and psychological challenges that accompany loss can take on unique challenges.
Mental health expert and thought leader, Tracey Horton explains that “loss at any time of our lives is difficult, but the reality is, as we age it seems to be all that much harder.”
The most common emotional and psychological challenges facing the over 60s include:
Grief is an inevitable part of life, but it’s also one of the most challenging experiences we face. When coping with the loss of a loved one, especially as we age, finding effective strategies to navigate the grieving process becomes paramount.
Some coping techniques that Horton suggests to help you find solace and resilience as you journey through grief include:
“Resilience is formed by facing each day with all you have, on the good days you do it well, and on the other days you might not, but you still get up and that is the key,” Horton adds.
In addition to the above suggestions, the following can provide some level of comfort and guidance to those dealing with grief, offering practical ways to cope and find solace during this difficult period in your life:
While these suggestions can help ease the burden, healing from grief is not a straightforward process, and it’s okay to seek professional help if you find yourself struggling to cope. Every individual’s journey with grief is unique, and finding the right combination of strategies that works for you is an essential part of the healing process
“Remember, you lost someone dear to you so allow the grief process but the day must come that you live on without them happily, just like you would want them to, had it been you,” Horton adds.
Grief in later life is a complex and often silent struggle, but it is not insurmountable. By seeking support, embracing self-care, setting new goals, seeking professional help when needed, and creating ways to honour loved ones, you can transform your grief into resilience, guiding you towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.
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