Married for 40 years this year, we have three daughters, with 7 boys between them, aged between 20 and 9, and one little girl of 7, who like her grandmother...ah yes, me...sent at the end of the line to sort out the blokes. From childhood I have struggled to crawl out of the pig-pen of victimhood, escaping it 32 years ago. Realising at an early age that other people were in pain and lonely too, I wanted to help them. Being a chatterbox and loving writing, I shared my own experiences...but it is no use having the gift of the gab without wisdom...I had to learn to listen too...