Royal expert reveals what Princess Diana was really like behind Palace walls

Nov 04, 2022
Always laughing, those close to Diana will always remember her cheeky sense of humour. Source: Getty

Growing up in Kensington Palace and living with Princess Diana is something only a handful of people have had the privilege of experiencing.

Now, the daughter of the Queen’s former press secretary is setting the record straight about what the late Princess was really like.

Royal expert and daughter of Dickie Arbiter, Victoria Arbiter, recently appeared on‘s podcast I’ve Got News For You to share her first encounter with the “People’s Princess”.

It was Victoria’s father’s 50th birthday and the late Princess had decided to host a celebration inside her own living room.

“She had tied helium balloons to each chair, there were four tables set up…The balloons said ‘nifty fifty’ on them,” Victoria said.

“She’d had a cake made in the shape of a phone and it said on it, ‘You’re never alone when Dickie‘s got his phone’.

“It was great, it was so unique.”

She went on to talk about Diana’s “very naughty sense of humour” and how it was her cheeky side that made a lasting impression.

“She loved to do nice things for other people. The cheekiness and the sense of humour were never at your expense, she was laughing with you,” she said.

Princess Diana laughs with American performer Liza Minnelli at a party following the charity film premiere of “Stepping Out.” Source: Getty

Victoria isn’t the only royal insider who has spoken of the late Princess’s great sense of humour.

In the 2016 documentary Diana, Our Mother: Her Life and LegacyPrince Harry spoke about how his mother was “an incredibly funny person” and always remembers her “crazy laugh”.

“All I can hear is her laugh in my head, and that sort of crazy laugh of where there was just pure happiness shown on her face,” he said.

In the same documentary, Prince William said the late Princess was “very informal and really enjoyed the laughter and the fun”.

William also claims his mum loved to send “the rudest cards you could imagine”.

“I would be at school and I’d get a card from my mother. Usually, she found something you know, very embarrassing, very funny card, and then sort of written very nice stuff inside,” he said.

Diana talks to patients in the AIDS unit of St Mary’s Hospital, London. Source: Getty

Outside Palace walls, Diana was known for her influence in fashion and her determined approach to her charity work.

One issue the late Princess continuously fought for was gay rights, specifically ending the stigma around those suffering from HIV and AIDS.

At the height of the AIDS epidemic, Diana opened the first-ever HIV/AIDS unit at the London Middlesex Hospital to exclusively care for those infected with the virus.

In a 1997 interview, Ian Green, Chief Executive of the HIV charity Terrence Higgins Trust said “Princess Diana was a true champion of HIV awareness”.

“She brought passion to the cause, and did things which were truly remarkable.”

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