You decide how your story will be told

There’s always a song.

Someone stands, voice shaking, hands folded around trembling paper, and then the music rises. The room goes still. The people stop. And the song does what words can’t – it tells a story. It says goodbye. It holds all the love we didn’t know how to express.

We don’t always get to choose how we go, but we can choose the soundtrack and that choice – like so many others at the end of a life – matters.

Some songs have become part of the cultural fabric of farewell:

• Amazing Grace – A timeless hymn emphasising forgiveness and redemption.
• My Way – A celebration of life on one’s own terms.
• Somewhere Over the Rainbow – A gentle hopeful melody about peace and the afterlife.
• Wind Beneath My Wings – A tribute to those who have provided support and strength.
• Hallelujah – Poetic and reflective, fitting for an emotional goodbye.
• Tears in Heaven – A poignant expression of loss and hope for reunion.
• Fields of Gold – A gentle, nostalgic song full of quiet love.

These songs aren’t chosen lightly, they’re chosen because they meant something to the person, to the family, to the life lived in full colour. Choosing that song is part of the legacy.

With iDecide, you can write that down and make sure your family knows your wishes.

Planning for death isn’t easy but iDecide  exists to make it less overwhelming, to give people a place to map out not just the legal stuff, but the deeply personal stuff too.

Here’s what iDecide lets you do:

Choose your songs.

Yes, you can list the songs you want played at your funeral, even the guilty pleasures.

Record your wishes.

Want a beach ceremony at sunset? A reading from your favourite book? A eulogy that includes the embarrassing story from 1987? It can all be there.

Store your essentials.

Wills, life insurance, advance care directives, letters for your kids, all in one place and all secured by bank grade security.

Give trusted people access.

Because when the time comes, your family shouldn’t be searching drawers, scanning computers or trying to guess your Facebook password. Information should be easy to access and ready to go.

iDecide isn’t just a storage box. It’s not another boring admin platform. It’s a space where you put the pieces of your life – your values, your voice, your choices – and make sure they show up when you no longer can.

No scrambling. No second-guessing. Just peace of mind and ease for you and your family.

The music you choose will say more than your eulogy ever could. It’ll echo down aisles and across lawns and through car stereos years later, when someone’s missing you the most.

Planning for that moment and everything around it doesn’t have to be cold. With iDecide, it can be deeply human, quietly powerful and gently loving.

Because the end of your life is still part of your story and you get to decide how it’s told.

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