‘It gets easier’: Prince William offers ‘powerful advice’ to grieving children

Aug 21, 2022
The Duke of Cambridge opens up about his mental health and losing Princess Diana. Source: Getty

Prince William is no stranger when it comes to reflecting on his feelings regarding his mother the late Princess Diana, with the Duke of Cambridge known for comforting bereaved young children who have also experienced the loss of a parent.

In May this year, William visited the home of BBC radio presenter Deborah James to award her the title of Damehood and provide her two children with some “powerful advice” about losing a parent.

According to James’ husband, Sebastien Bowen, the Prince “felt like a friend” as he spoke to their 14-year-old son Hugo and 12-year-old daughter Eloise, offering them insights into his own grief when he lost his mother when he was 15.

“He’s obviously been through similar grief with the loss of his mother, so he gave powerful advice to the children that will stay with them forever,” Bowen said.

Prince William was only 15 when his mother died, while his brother, Harry, was 12. Source: @peterishann

Prior to his visit with James’ children, William and his wife, Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, made a special visit to Lancashire where William was introduced to 11-year-old Deacon Glover, whose mother, Grace Taylor, died in 2021, aged just 28.

The royal sympathised with the grieving schoolboy, as he and his wife sat with him and his grandmother, the Duke telling Glover “I know how you feel” before putting a hand on the boy’s shoulder and saying “I lost my mother when I was 15… It’s difficult. But it gets easier I promise you”.

In a 2017 interview with GQ, William opened up about the sadness he felt over the fact that his mother never had the opportunity to meet his wife or her grandchildren.

“I would like to have had her advice. I would love her to have met Catherine and to have seen the children grow up. It makes me sad that she won’t, that they will never know her,” he told the publication.

The Duke when on to share his process of dealing with his mother’s sudden death.

“I am in a better place about it than I have been for a long time, where I can talk about her more openly, talk about her more honestly, and I can remember her better, and publicly talk about her better,” he said.

“It has taken me almost 20 years to get to that stage.

“I still find it difficult now, because at the time it was so raw. And also it is not like most people’s grief, because everyone else knows about it, everyone knows the story, everyone knows her.”

William has admitted this “saddest memory” was learning about his mother’s death. Source: Twitter @hiindia

Since his mother’s tragic car crash in Paris 25 years ago, William has been a staunch advocate for mental health, making it the cornerstone of his royal work.

In 2019, William appeared on the BBC special A Royal Team Talk: Tackling Mental Health where he spoke about losing his mother at a young age and the importance of discussing emotions and mental health, saying people need “to relax a little bit and be able to talk about our emotions because we’re not robots”.

He has also had a candid chat with New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern about his own mental health.

“I think now, there’s a generation finally realising that this is not normal, we should talk about it, we should get over [the stigma],” he said at the time.

“We’ve got to start tackling it now so that our children and grandchildren don’t have to go through this process, and they can be a lot more open about it.”

In an effort to shed more light on the topic, William and Kate have formed Heads Together, an initiative that works “to tackle stigma and change the conversation on mental health”.

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