Mum of Aussie fireman who ended his life at Swiss clinic breaks her silence

Troy Thornton ended his life at Basel's Life Circle clinic on Friday. Source: Troy Thornton (supplied).

Australian fireman Troy Thornton made headlines over the past week after the news emerged that he had chosen to end his life at a Swiss assisted dying clinic after being diagnosed with a progressive neurodegenerative disorder.

The 54-year-old, who had multiple system atrophy (MSA), died by lethal injection at Basel’s Life Circle clinic in Switzerland on Friday, and now his mother has spoken out about her son’s decision to bring his life to an end overseas.

Barbara Spencer told the Sydney Morning Herald that she wants Aussie politicians to “take notice” of Troy’s story, adding that something needs to be done about the issue of voluntary assisted dying here in Australia.

“There has to be something done about this,” she told the news outlet. “I hope this is his legacy… I will be proud of that and hopefully one day it will be passed and people won’t have to travel.”

Despite the state of Victoria preparing to legalise voluntary assisted dying, which will take effect in June this year, Troy was not considered to have a terminal illness under the new legislation as he could not find two doctors willing to say that he would die within 12 months.

Read more: Aussie fireman dies after ending life in Swiss clinic.

Speaking to Starts at 60 before he made the journey to Switzerland last week, the father-of-two revealed what led him to make the decision to administer the life-ending drug, which he said would end years of “misery”, having been diagnosed with incurable disease MSA in 2014, which can affect movement, balance, speech, bladder control and even breathing.

“I just feel ill and unwell, it’s like shoot me now, you know?” he explained in an exclusive chat. “At first you can’t run, then you can’t swim, then you can’t kick a footy, then you can’t surf – which I used to love doing – then eventually it takes your career away from you… Now I’m housebound.

“I couldn’t sleep with my wife for the last six months because I hit her at night. The intimacy goes so then you lose that, I had to sell my car which I loved. It takes everything away from you over a long period. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. It’s the worst way to go out, now I just want to go to sleep.”

Read more: ‘I’m ending my life this week but I’ve told my beloved wife to find love again’.

He also revealed the emotional final message he gave his wife Christine, pleading with her to move on and find love again once he’s gone.

Troy, from Melbourne, added: “My wife is only 47, she’s beautiful inside and out, and I leave her with a full heart. I’ve said to her, ‘You will grieve me for a while but you’re a young woman, go and partner up again’.

“I love her. You don’t want her to grieve her for the rest of her life, she’s only 47, she could live until she’s 90. I hate the idea of her being by herself. That’s what you do for people you love, you want them to be happy. I reckon she’s a good catch!”

Before his death at the assisted suicide clinic – the same one used by Australia’s oldest scientist Dr David Goodall last year – Troy called on the government to change the law, explaining that while Victoria’s new bill is a huge step in the right direction, it still fundamentally has the wrong focus.

“I’ve realised the human rights law in Switzerland have the right focus. That focus is a human’s right to choose,” he said. “But over here, it seems our legislators have got a whole different focus. They’re focused on terminal illnesses, suffering and pain… They should be focused on the right to choose.”

To find out more about Troy’s journey, visit his GoFundMe page here.

If you’re depressed or need someone to talk to, there are many 24/7 support lines available, including Lifeline on 13 11 14, the Suicide Call Back Service on 1300 659 467, MensLineAustralia on 1300 789 978 and Beyond Blue on 1300 224 636.

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