For decades, grey hair carried a quiet, unfair verdict for women in particular: something to be covered up, apologised for, dealt with every few weeks at the salon before anyone noticed. That’s changing, and changing fast. More women than ever are choosing to let their natural silver shine through, not as a concession to ageing, but as a genuine style statement in its own right.

The technique making the transition easier

If you’ve been tempted to go grey but worried about the awkward, patchy growing-out phase, there’s good news: colourists have developed a genuinely clever technique for exactly this problem, often called “grey blending.”

Rather than covering all your grey in one flat colour, or letting it grow out with a stark line between old colour and new grey, colourists strategically place highlights or lowlights in warm or neutral tones that blend with your natural silver. “Our eye is naturally pulled toward two things – lightness and warmth,” celebrity hair colorist Travis Ogletree has explained. “When we inevitably start to grey, our base starts to lose its warmth as we simultaneously start to see the lighter greys and whites come in. Our eye naturally travels right to that newfound lightness.”

By adding fine, strategically placed golden or neutral highlights, a colourist can soften that contrast so your eye takes in the hair as a whole, rather than fixating on the grey specifically. Celebrity colourist Farah Hurdle describes the technique simply as being “all about distraction” – highlighting the areas with more silver, while lowlighting the darker sections, so there’s no harsh line of demarcation to give the game away.

The practical upside is real too: this approach generally means fewer salon visits, not more, with appointments often able to be spaced six to eight weeks apart or longer, particularly for those with a lighter base colour to begin with.

The women leading the way

Plenty of well-known, well-loved women have shown just how striking grey hair can look, each in her own way.

Dame Helen Mirren has arguably done more than anyone to make grey hair feel aspirational rather than apologetic. She’s described her own transition as simply not bothering to fight it. “I never went to have my hair coloured – I couldn’t be bothered,” she told British Vogue, treating the whole thing with the same unbothered confidence she brings to everything else.

Andie MacDowell made headlines when she stopped colouring her hair during the pandemic, after noticing her natural grey roots coming through and deciding she liked what she saw. “I felt that I would be happier. And I am happier,” she told People. “I really like it … this is the time of my life.”

Sarah Jessica Parker has let her natural grey show through in recent years, famously incorporating it into her return as Carrie Bradshaw. Her colourist has described the blend of grey, blonde and darker tones as creating a genuinely beautiful sense of dimension.

Jane Fonda made her own grey debut at the 2020 Oscars and has stuck with it ever since, having previously spoken about no longer wanting to spend the money, or subject her hair to the chemicals, required to maintain her former colour.

Salma Hayek, approaching 60, has recently been photographed letting her natural grey roots show at public events, parting her hair to draw attention to it rather than disguise it.

And it’s not just Hollywood’s leading ladies – plenty of men, from George Clooney to Jon Bon Jovi, have long since made peace with, and even leaned into, their own salt-and-pepper transitions, proof that a full head of grey can look every bit as good as it always has for men, and increasingly, for women too.

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If you’ve been putting off the decision to let your natural colour grow through, or simply weren’t sure how to make the transition look intentional rather than accidental, there’s genuinely never been a better time. Between a proper colourist’s technique and no shortage of stylish, confident role models to draw inspiration from, going grey no longer has to mean choosing between looking your age and looking your best. Increasingly, it can simply mean both.