Let’s talk: Should you be allowed to raise your child however you want?

If there’s one thing mothers know to be true, it’s that how you choose to raise your children and live

If there’s one thing mothers know to be true, it’s that how you choose to raise your children and live your life is a very personal decision and one that is different for everyone.

While there are thankfully laws in place to protect children from harm or being abused by parents, questions about just how far these laws should go have been raised after a mother in NSW given a 14 month suspended jail sentence yesterday after pleading guilty to failing to provide for her child.

The mother, a maternity ward nurse, had been following a raw food diet with sporadic fasting on the advice of her naturopath Marilyn Bodnar who said it was the best way to cure her little breastfeeding baby’s eczema.

Court documents show that Ms Bodnar allegedly told the mother to stop eating “rubbish” during her pregnancy and encouraged her to abandon other medical advice.

“Are you 100 per cent raw? You have to be 100 per cent raw if you want to see your son heal,” Ms Bodnar allegedly told the mother.

After the baby suffered a fever last year, Ms Bodbar allegedly told the mother to go on water only diet, which she did despite the fact that her baby was still breastfeeding.

“You’re not allowed to eat anything if you want to see him better,” she allegedly advised the mother.

Even when the baby became so sick it was vomiting, Ms Bodnar allegedly told the mother to stick to the water only diet saying “increased temperature means increased vitality”.

The baby was eventually taken to hospital when it was eight months old with doctors saying it wasn’t a moment to soon as it would have died without proper medical attention.

Ms Bodnar has been charged with reckless grievous bodily harm and is expected to face a committal hearing next Monday.

In the meantime, the story has some people questioning how far the law should go when it comes to raising your children.

Some parents say they should be able to eat what they want and feed their children what they want without having to worry about legal consequences.

They say as long as they are feeding their kids healthy food and providing them with shelter and care, the law shouldn’t be able to interfere.

Others though, say there needs to be strict rules in place forcing parents to care for their children in a particular way to make sure all children are safe and healthy.

As mothers and fathers who have raised their own healthy children for years, baby boomers have a particularly strong outlook on this issue.

What are your thoughts?

Should you be able to raise your child however you want? Or should there be harsher laws in place to make parents care for their kids a particular way?

  1. Children are vulnerable they dont have the word or insight to understand what safe or who you can trust that is why we need a strict guide lines according to long and informed studys from careing people. But the fundermentles are love, careing and protection

  2. Margaret  

    The trouble is current medical thinking knows more and more about less and less. Look at the ridiculous(in hind sight) mistakes we have been led into by our “experts”. Now we know that butter is better than margarine which has 32 chemicals added to otherwise healthy vegetable oil. We know the artificial sweeteners lead to high blood sugar readings and derangement of our insulin modifying function. So who is to dictate what is correct? We have a nightmare situation in the US of A where a child with cancer was ordered to undergo dangerous useless chemotherapy by a court because the parents refused to allow it. 100 million Chinese use Qigong and energy work affecting all meridians to heal cancer. They have hospitals dedicated to healing cancer patients. They haven’t found a cure but people manage cancer the way other chronic conditions such as high blood pressure or diabetes is managed. Living long full and productive lives. We as a society are too ignorant to dictate how children should be treated. Almost 100 percent of parents do the right thing by their children.

  3. The troubles this woman wanted to be a mother without any knowledge how to be one. How can she just listened to this sort ofadvised without having any doubt. Senseless, its nothing wrong to brought your child the way we want to! So as a parents what we want our children to be! A child is born just like a white piece of cloth, its up to the parents to colour them. Basically what parents have colored them will be their initial values they will carry them in their life. The rest they will learned through experienced.

  4. cheryl chalmers  

    maybe ms Bodnar should have been jailed too.as she an idoit too.

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