Help! I’m going to a charity ball and have no idea what to wear

One of our SAS readers messaged us this week with a dilemma she’s facing. It’s always an honour to be invited to a charity ball, but what happens when you’re not sure how to dress for the dress code.

Do you have any advice?

We have been invited to a charity ball. I’m 62, short and a bit overweight. I have arthritis in my feet, and can’t wear high heels, is it acceptable to maybe wear lower shoes and black pants and a very dressy top? My husband has a tux and was thinking of wearing a dark suit, white, shirt and dark tie. This is a fundraiser close to our hearts, but certainly don’t want to offend. Help!

Let us know your thoughts.