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The Love Child series on Channel Nine, which focuses on the lives of those affected by forced adoptions in Australia in the 1960s, has struck an overwhelming response with our Starts at Sixty Community, and it is back on TV tonight for its second season.

When we asked last year if you watched the series we received hundreds of comments across Australia. Many are enjoying the series and told us that it is wonderfully written and incredibly true to life with clothes, music and issues that conjure up so many memories of the time.

Many are also found it difficult to watch because it is so true to life. There are those of you who have lived it. Mothers who were forced to give up their babies, children who have grown up with adopted parents, nurses and support staff who worked in these environments, as well as family members who supported loved ones through it.

Some of these brave people have spoken to us to share their stories. They have told us that in telling their story it has helped a little bit more on their road to recovery. There are so many stories, which we intend to cover over the coming weeks. Some of these are incredibly touching and some show incredible strength. We are privileged to share these real stores from this difficult time.



When I first started watching Love Child it has caused all kinds of emotions to come up because I have kept them hidden for so many years. The first episode was very harrowing to watch and have now been seeing a counsellor. They have encouraged me to tell my story to help my recovery…

The funny thing is about the show is that it has evoked such vivid memories, Russell Morris and the songs, protesting against Vietnam it even brings back smells of the era.

When I was 16 I was raped. I can’t actually remember the incident and have blocked the pain out of my mind.

Then seven months later I went and saw a doctor because I was not getting my periods and found out I was pregnant.  I just remember mum saying “what are we going to do”. I was sent me away to live with my aunt and uncle. We lived in a close community and mum was ashamed.

When the time came to have the baby my Aunt and Uncle took me to the hospital. Mum came too and just stood beside me and just looked at me. I recall when the baby was delivered the nurse put her hand over my eyes so I could not see my baby and said, “it is better not to look dear”. I was sent home two days later.

Twelve years on I tried to find my child, but found nothing. Then I tried again when she would have been fifteen. I was lucky to go through Jigsaw, which is an agency that helps find adopted children in Hobart, and had a particularly wonderful woman who helped me.  I wrote a letter to my daughter’s adopted mother and received a message back that my daughter wanted to meet me. So on her 15th birthday we met and had high tea.

It was an incredibly emotional day and had so many presents to give her from over the years. For 15 years, every year I went through hell for her birthday. I didn’t know if she was alive, or in a happy and stable home, or what had happened to her, and I didn’t know if she was a boy or a girl.

Today, it is wonderful. We have remained close and my daughter calls me mum and I am a grandmother to her son. I am sick of being a victim and refuse to be so anymore. I am so happy that my daughter is now part of my life and I am a big part of hers, as well as my grandson’s. It has been a rocky journey to get here but so blessed and I am working every day to get stronger and stronger.



I was actually a love child baby. I found out when I was 11 that I was adopted. Then when I was around 35 I thought I would like to find out who my parents were. I was interested to find out who she was, let her know I was okay, that I had a wonderful upbringing and great opportunities in life.

I found my mother and discovered that she had had four other children after me. They had a very different upbringing and were not as fortunate. I never called my birth mother, mum and did not have any real feelings for her. When I found her she was in her 60s and more of an old lady and we did not have any real connection.

I was lucky to have a really good relationship with my adopted parents. I was brought up well and had a much better life than my natural mother’s children did. My birth mother had a hard life and ended up being an alcoholic, smoked too much and died of emphysema. I know that some adoptions don’t work out but I feel very fortunate to have been adopted into a good home.



I was born in 1948 in those days it was a definite no-no to have a baby out of wedlock. I was told I was adopted when I was around six and remember all the neighbourhood kids giving me grief about it.

I found my mother in 1999 as I always told my adopted parents I would never get serious about it while they were still alive out of respect for them. When they passed they had a safety deposit box for me with all the adoption papers.

To start my search I went through Vanish (Victorian adoption agency) I had my mothers name and just started searching. I finally found an address and was told by the agency to write a letter first. I didn’t and called. On the phone I said my birthdate and asked if it meant anything and we both broke down. After that I called ever Saturday night for a couple of months. Then finally we decided to meet.

A kind neighbour who had heard the story bought her a plane ticket to Sydney to meet me. We kept chatting every Saturday night then met up again a couple of years later when she spent Christmas with us. I found out my mother actually ended up marrying my father after all. She had a daughter and two sons but she never told them I existed.

Unfortunately, as things go I said something I shouldn’t have and my mum and I stopped talking. After we went our separate ways and never got the chance to say sorry. She passed away a couple of years later. I am sure that she knows that I am sorry and really feel for the heartache she must of felt.

These are just some of the many stories that our community has shared with us over the past week. We will be sharing more of these with you as the series continues.

Do you have a love child story too? 

Rebecca Wilson

Rebecca Wilson is the founder and publisher of Starts at Sixty. The daughter of two baby boomers, she has built the online community for over 60s by listening carefully to the issues and seeking out answers, insights and information for over 60s throughout Australia. Rebecca is an experienced marketer, a trained journalist and has a degree in politics. A mother of 3, she passionately facilitates and leads our over 60s community, bringing the community opinions, needs and interests to the fore and making Starts at Sixty a fun place to be.

  1. i am very proud of my mum she kept her baby even though she musta been under so much pressure .this is going back to 19 39 .my dad two becuse there were no steps in my family whe were all sisters .

  2. I love the first series….I was 17 in 1969. It felt like a recall of all the memories and happenings that I experienced. I asked my Daughter to watch the series as she might finally see where & what I was about ..How I was as a teenager & what I experienced etc etc ..It was a wonderful awakening..she saw for her self what it was like to be a teenager in 1969-1972 when I was young.. It was a great experience for all!!!! XXX bring on second series!!!

  3. I could not bring myself to watch this series,I was one of those mothers forced to adopt my baby out,saddest part of my life, there are no words to describe the empty feeling you have when you are sent home with out your baby

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  4. I was pregnant in the mid 60’s…NO-ONE would have taken my baby.though Mum would have tried…forced marriage instead. I do understand that not everyone is as strong willed or lucky as me, really feel for those people.

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  5. Yes.
    Go back to late 40s.
    My mum was sent to Sydney from Adelaide at 23 to have her 1st baby adopted.
    2 yrs later she married.
    I only discovered 1 sister & 4 bros at age 50 after a bit of research. Amazing.
    Apparently she died when the 5 children she had after me were all under 10. So sad.

  6. It must have been heartbreaking for them

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    • it most certainly was, Margaret, i was 18 when i had to relinquish my daughter, she is 45 this year, and after 22 years contact, she decides she wants no further contact, it is most times all about how they feel, what about us, who helps us ????

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