Kirk Douglas shares sweet relationship advice for son Michael’s 19th wedding anniversary

Kirk Douglas had some traditional words of wisdom for Michael and wife Catherine Zeta-Jones. Source: Getty

If you’re going to take relationship advice, you may as well take it from someone who’s been happily married for 65 years!

That’s probably Catherine Zeta-Jones was happy to share the sage advice her father-in-law Kirk Douglas passed on when she and husband Michael Douglas celebrated their 19th wedding anniversary on Monday

The Chicago star shared the sweet letter on her Instagram alongside a glamorous black-and-white photo of Michael and herself, which she captioned, “Dancing in to our 20th year! Happy Anniversary my love. Such a beautiful letter from my father in law. I am touched.”

The couple have been through a lot in their 19 years together so far, including Michael’s cancer diagnosis in 2010 proving a difficult time for the couple, and Catherine checking into a hospital in 2013 for treatment for bipolar II disorder, having revealed in 2013 that she had been diagnosed with the mental illness.

Catherine Zeta-Jones Michael Douglas
Source: Instagram/Catherine Zeta-Jones

The letter from Kirk, who turns 103 in December, shared some sweet words of wisdom that were traditional – but with a twist.

It read: “Dear Michael and Catherine, Happy anniversary! Michael, you learned a very important lesson, to stay married you must obey your wife! Keep practicing what I do with my wife.”

note from Kirk Douglas
Source: Instagram/Catherine Zeta-Jones

Fans were thrilled to see the letter, with one writing: “Happy Anniversary, that letter is all truth.”

“That letter from Kirk is pure love,” another commented, while a third wrote: “Happy anniversary Catherine & Michael! Kirk! You are an awesome father in law!”.

Kirk certainly knows a thing or two about marriage and the importance of letters, particularly love letters. He’s been married to wife Anne Buydens, for 65 years and in 2017 the couple released a joint memoir called Kirk and Anne: Letters of Love, Laughter, and a Lifetime in Hollywood.

The book revealed how the famous lothario wooed his French wife, who was working as translator on one of his movie sets, with words, then kept wooing her with them throughout their marriage.

Kirk previously said that Anne kept all their love letters, but he came up with the idea of publishing them because he felt modern society had lost the art of writing romantic billets doux.

“I hope our grandchildren won’t be shocked by the intensity of the letters,” he said when the book was published. “Perhaps they will come to value, even in this world of instant communication, the joy of writing and receiving non-electronic letters — particularly when it comes to love.”

“Today, you get an email. It does nothing to you! It’s cold. It’s the new world. I like the old world better,” Anne added.

One of the last surviving stars of Hollywood’s Golden Age, Kirk’s impressive career in Tinsel Town began in 1946 when he made his movie debut in The Strange Love of Martha Ivers alongside Barbara Stanwyck. He went on to star in a staggering number of hit flicks including The Vikings (1958), Lust for Life (1956), Paths of Glory (1957) and Lonely Are The Brave (1962).

The great-grandad has also featured alongside his son and grandson on the silver screen as Kirk, Michael and Cameron all starred in 2003’s It Runs in the Family, with the real-life relatives playing three members of the same family. The movie was described by Douglas at the time as: “A black comedy about three generations of a dysfunctional family living in New York, and their attempt to reconcile”.

He also boasts an impressive trophy cabinet, having won an honorary Oscar in 1996, a Golden Globe for his role as Dutch painter Vincent Van Gogh in Lust for Life, as well as a plethora of nominations for his most iconic roles.

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