A mother’s agony after son’s bones were found at the family home

It’s hard to imagine losing a loved one and never knowing what happened to them. One day they’re there, and
via Missing Person – Daniel James O'Keeffe Facebook

It’s hard to imagine losing a loved one and never knowing what happened to them. One day they’re there, and the next they vanish without a trace, and without a note. This is the scenario the O’Keeffe family found themselves in 5 years ago when their 24-year-old son Daniel left his Melbourne home without his wallet, medication or any ID.

Since then, the entire family worked tirelessly to find Daniel, setting up numerous pages and websites, requesting information or any leads on his whereabouts.

Hope came in 2012 when a man resembling Daniel turned up at a Brisbane medical centre asking for water. The sighting was confirmed by the family but it was based off grainy CCTV footage.

They never gave up searching for Daniel, but on a normal Monday afternoon this week, everything changed: Daniel’s father Des found his son’s remains under the family home.

It’s unimaginable to think how the family must be feeling: they’ve travelled all around Australia looking for answers, a sign, anything – and their son may have been under their feet the entire time.

On the Facebook page for Daniel, the family released a statement about the finding, though forensic testing is still ongoing to confirm the identity of the adult bones.

They said:

It is with heavy hearts that the family and friends of Dan O’Keeffe, update this page to share that Dan’s remains were discovered earlier today. It appears that some media outlets have already begun to disseminate this information before our family was able to contact everyone necessary.

We ask that you keep our family in your thoughts as we navigate this process and that our privacy be respected.

We have united a community, which is a beautiful thing. None of this has been in vain, and that’s all thanks to you.

All our love,

The O’Keeffes

Daniel’s mother Lori spoke to the Daily Mail and said the family were deeply saddened by the discovery.

Mrs O’Keeffe said her husband found the remains in a ‘cavity’ in the ‘side of a hill alongside the house’ where he was digging.

‘That’s not anything any father wants to do, no parent should find their child like that,’ she said.

‘The fact that his father found him adds another level of grief.’

‘I can’t bring myself to go down there.

‘It certainly wasn’t the outcome we were expecting,’ Mrs O’Keeffe said, adding the discovery was ‘too raw’ to bring any closure yet.

On Tuesday Victoria Police also told Daily Mail Australia a post-mortem exam and forensic testing is yet to be completed.

‘The current circumstances surrounding the death are not considered to be suspicious but a thorough investigation is being conducted to determine the cause of death,’ a spokesman said.

Share your thoughts and support below.

  1. facebook_elda.quinton  

    Those poor people. Heartbreaking. Now they’ll be wondering if he was ill and could have been helped and they never knew he was there.

  2. Julie leach  

    Im so sorry..but now you can mourn daniel and you know where he is..hes not out there somewhere..you can lay him to rest..im so very sorry for the loss of your beloved daniel..my condolences..

  3. Unice Smith  

    Loosing a child is the hardest thing any parent has to face no one knows the anguish, confusion and pain they suffer, Till it happens never, never say you will get over it You don’t I know this from personal experience Pam Smith

  4. So sad for the family, cannot begin to imagine the heartache they have been through, my condolences to all your family.

  5. Sue McCrae  

    My thoughts & sympathy are wiyh you all.
    How tragic 😢

  6. Christine O'Keeffe  

    My heart goes to all the family, for their tragic loss of their beautiful boy. Daniel’s family appear to be such a loving family. Daniel is now at peace, and his families search is over. My thoughts are with them.

  7. Sandra  

    Cannot begin to know what this family has and is going through,let’s hope the media show them the respect they deserve,and let them grieve for their precious son.

  8. Philippa Lander  

    My heart goes out to them.

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